The 2 posts on this blog this week by Neil Skjoldal and Mark McQuain raise issues related to parental decision-making for the medical treatment of their children. Neil raised this issue related to parental refusal of life-saving treatment for acute leukemia and Mark raised it related to parental decisions not to have their children immunized for measles. There are some similarities in these situations and some differences. An obvious similarity is that in both of these situations parents are making a decision to refuse treatment for their children that is the recommended standard of care. Both situations raise issues about who should make decisions about the medical care that children receive and how those decisions should be made.
One thing we should be clear about is that this is not a conflict between the principle of respect for autonomy and the principle of beneficence. Respect for autonomy says that a person should be able to make decisions about what happens to his or her own body. It says that it shows disrespect to an individual as a person to insist a person receive recommended medical care when that person has the capability of making his or her own decisions and does not consent to the recommended care. This principle does not apply to decisions about the medical care of young children. Young children are not capable of making decisions about their own care and the parents are not the ones receiving medical treatment, so respect for autonomy does not apply to these situations.
What is involved is our understanding of parental responsibility for making medical decisions for their children. Because young children do not have the ability to make their own medical decisions, someone needs to serve as a decision-maker for them. We generally understand that parents ought to be the ones making those decisions. We have good reasons for that. Decisions about the medical care of young children should be made based on what is in the best interest of those children. God has created us as human beings to be dependent during the early part of our lives. He has put us in families with parents who have the responsibility for providing for the needs of their dependent children. Parents should love their children unconditionally as a precious gift and make decisions for their children based on what is best for each child. This usually makes parents the people who care the most about doing what is best for a child and makes them the best medical decision makers for their child.
However, sometimes parents do not fulfill their parental responsibilities as well as they should. None of us are perfect, but there are times when it is clear that the decision being made by a parent is not what is best for a child. When the potential consequences for the child are serious enough it can become the responsibility of the rest of us to intervene for the benefit of the child. We should not violate parental responsibility lightly, and it needs to be done in a controlled and orderly way, but when the child’s life is in danger, we have a responsibility as a society to intervene to protect a child. We should do this in any type of severe neglect or abuse. We should do it when parents refuse medical treatment for a child who is likely to die if without treatment and the treatment has a good chance of saving the child’s life.
That appears to be the case in the situation in Neil’s post. The concern about parents refusing immunizations for their children has some similarities, but is more complex. It will take another post to address that.